Wake up & think positive
Misery enjoys company but not the company of happiness. If you want to reside with happiness, you have to bid misery farewell." NosaJ
Relationships are supposed to make you happy or a happier person and if they are not, then there is something wrong with that picture. Life provides enough people and situations to worry about but
there is also something wrong about having to worry about everything and everyone all the time.
I would be telling a lie, if I was to say all my relationships have been completely happy, but now that I think about it, they have not made me a miserable cow either. They have not made me a miserable person or maybe I have not allowed them compliments of understanding. I understand that life is about gains and losses, about finding and losing certain people or things and finding again.
All our relationships on a personal and professional level have some turmoil, some stress, some doubt and enough disagreements to them, but at the end of the day or at the end of each of them, you have come to terms with what is. At the end of each chapter, you have allow your story to make me you better person and embrace a special kind of peace. Either that or the company of misery.
I would tell you a lie if I said I was free of worry or did not worry about me, life and others. I wake up with worry or a disturbing thought sometimes and then I have to immediately say goodbye to worry and that morning thought. Instead of the company of worry which would also lead to the company of misery, I replace worry with Hope and faith and keep on moving through the day. I have to,for the others that I do worry about, for my own salvation and to get to a happier place. I cannot get there with worry or misery.
One thing I do believe in among others is free will. We are not as free individuals as we would like to believe and we are not necessarily free people but we do have free will. We have the choice to be or not to be.The question for you is which choice to make? Others may be able to affect your free will or to manipulate it but the mind cannot be taken from its source and you are the source.
The serenity prayer comes to mind sometimes. I am not going to try and change anyone for the people that I do know are beautiful as they are even if they do keep the company of misery or are the messengers of misery. The unconditional acceptance principle still applies to them and free will of association with them or misery applies to me. I can change me and I can change some circumstances and I do ask the universe to give me the serenity to accept the things that I cannot change. Accordingly instead of misery, I take the gift of serenity and say goodbye to misery.
Even though misery does not enjoy the company of happiness, the very character of misery is that it insists and persists and until misery knows for certain that you are with happiness, misery will continue to flirt with you and seek to have an affair or a relationship with you.
Wake up and Say goodbye to misery . Say goodbye to misery is taking steps towards the heart of happiness. Wake up and enjoy your life for life is the ultimate gift that has been given to you and misery ruins it.