Wake up & think positive
" A change of feeling is a change of Destiny." Neville Goodard (1905- 1972)
There are some things which we should all be afraid of and that is what you can call commonsense fear or universal fear. There are also an abundance of other things that we as human being are afraid of but should not necessarily be afraid of. These are unique and personal things that we fear. You may not be alone when it comes to what you are afraid of and that puts that fear and you in the realm of being normal. Normal does not however necessarily mean good or for you. It becomes even more normal by acceptance and you allowing it to become an everyday occurrence.
Everything has to have an origin. Every story has a beginning, a middle and an end. The big question is why are you afraid of what you are afraid of? How did it begin or when did it begin? That is the origin of your fear. The question to the middle of your story is: Do you want to continue being afraid for the rest of your life or are you going to do something about it? This is the resolution part of your story. Your story of fear ends as you either remaining a victim of fear or of being victorious. I like stories with victorious endings and I hope that is how your middle of the story leads to its victorious end.
Back to the beginning of the story, your story, my story, our story. There are some things that can happen to us along the way that create fear but I think we grow up with most of our fears. Wherever it began or begins, we give them power and we allow them to take power away from us. Fear prevents you from doing some magical and majestic things. Fear prevents you from being greater than you are or doing something great that could change your life or the life of others. Fear prevents you from living life as you should or as the universe may have intended for you.
I think that the universe wants you to live fearlessly. In its own majestic way the universe has always protected us from some things that we should be afraid of. The universe has provided us with many tools to either balance out or overcome our fears. Faith, hope and love are a part of those universal tools, but most of all the power of our own minds. The gift of free will allows you do decide how to apply the gifts of your tools or leave them wrapped up. Unwrap them, use them and fear becomes less powerful and less of a prison.
Fear prevents you from being loved or giving love. That is the fear of the broken heart or a heart that does not want to be broken but what if that fear is just an illusion preventing you from the happiest ending to your story? What if there is someone out there that needs your love and only your kind of love but because you are afraid, you neither see it nor give the love. What if there is someone out there that can love you as you need to be loved, but you are afraid of love.To that I say love fearlessly, love unconditionally and your heart cannot be broken.
Being fearless does not mean reckless. Be real also, see truth, know truth ,know true love when you see it, do not deceive and be not deceived.
Hope is looking forward to something or someone good. That is the gift of hope. It may be a brighter future. It may be new love. It may be new life. It may be an event or it may be as simple as a new TV series. Doubt is the fear that negates hope. Without hope, there is nothing to look forward to, but there is always hope, until the very end of your story and then that is fate. Hope fearlessly for your dreams and desires and act fearlessly to make the ones within your power a reality. The brighter future is within your power. That new TV series might not be.
Have faith Fearlessly & :Believe fearlessly.
To believe in God is faith. To believe in the unseen or what cannot yet be seen is faith. To believe that you can do something that has not yet happened or belongs to the future, is faith. The question then is how much faith do you have for the measure of your faith determines how far you will leap with your dreams into reality.
Believe in yourself fearlessly and you will accomplish your goals. Believe in yourself, even when everyone else is doubting you, and you will still find success. Believe in yourself fearlessly and any purpose to which you put your mind can be accomplished. If you are afraid even before the mission has been started or afraid of failure, you will not find the success that you desire or deserve.
Maybe some fear never goes away but we do have to learn to be more fearless most of the time than afraid. We have to learn to have courage rather than be overwhelmed by fear and doubt, or we will always be less than we are meant to be and never get to where we want to be or are supposed to be. Use the tools that you have been given and you will at the very least have more control over fear than fear has over you.
I do not think anyone can be completely fearless, but I do believe that you can overcome fear and become or be more fearless than afraid. Being positive and logical can also play a great role to that end. Wake up and be more fearless. Wake up and face your day fearlessly. Wake up and face your challenges fearlessly.
Misery enjoys company but not the company of happiness. If you want to reside with happiness, you have to bid misery farewell." NosaJ
Relationships are supposed to make you happy or a happier person and if they are not, then there is something wrong with that picture. Life provides enough people and situations to worry about but
there is also something wrong about having to worry about everything and everyone all the time.
I would be telling a lie, if I was to say all my relationships have been completely happy, but now that I think about it, they have not made me a miserable cow either. They have not made me a miserable person or maybe I have not allowed them compliments of understanding. I understand that life is about gains and losses, about finding and losing certain people or things and finding again.
All our relationships on a personal and professional level have some turmoil, some stress, some doubt and enough disagreements to them, but at the end of the day or at the end of each of them, you have come to terms with what is. At the end of each chapter, you have allow your story to make me you better person and embrace a special kind of peace. Either that or the company of misery.
I would tell you a lie if I said I was free of worry or did not worry about me, life and others. I wake up with worry or a disturbing thought sometimes and then I have to immediately say goodbye to worry and that morning thought. Instead of the company of worry which would also lead to the company of misery, I replace worry with Hope and faith and keep on moving through the day. I have to,for the others that I do worry about, for my own salvation and to get to a happier place. I cannot get there with worry or misery.
One thing I do believe in among others is free will. We are not as free individuals as we would like to believe and we are not necessarily free people but we do have free will. We have the choice to be or not to be.The question for you is which choice to make? Others may be able to affect your free will or to manipulate it but the mind cannot be taken from its source and you are the source.
The serenity prayer comes to mind sometimes. I am not going to try and change anyone for the people that I do know are beautiful as they are even if they do keep the company of misery or are the messengers of misery. The unconditional acceptance principle still applies to them and free will of association with them or misery applies to me. I can change me and I can change some circumstances and I do ask the universe to give me the serenity to accept the things that I cannot change. Accordingly instead of misery, I take the gift of serenity and say goodbye to misery.
Even though misery does not enjoy the company of happiness, the very character of misery is that it insists and persists and until misery knows for certain that you are with happiness, misery will continue to flirt with you and seek to have an affair or a relationship with you.
Wake up and Say goodbye to misery . Say goodbye to misery is taking steps towards the heart of happiness. Wake up and enjoy your life for life is the ultimate gift that has been given to you and misery ruins it.